The Bitch Next Door That Men Love.
The word bitch could mean different things to different people but I think that one way to define a bitch is a woman who can never love any man or anyone more than she loves herself.
So, do you feel you should always come first in that relationship? Do you think you are not in any kind of competition with any chick out there to keep the man? And lastly, are you more interested in owning his wallet than you are in owning heart? If the answers to these questions are a resounding yes, then, girl, you are not just a bitch but a basic bitch.
Now, to the question of the day– why do men love bitches? In the curse of this article, I am going to give numbered/detailed answer to this all-time famous question.
- A BITCH IS NOT CLINGY
Men love their space. They want to be able to go to work and concentrate on work and not have to call their woman every hour just to say “I love”—because that is what she wants. He need to hang out with the ‘boys’ without his woman calling every hour to know what he is doing. Men love a woman who has a life outside of the relationship—like she has her own thing going on and she is holding it down. We all love to feel wanted but a man loves and respects a woman who” choose to be with him and not a woman who needs to be with him, a woman who can live with or without him.
A BITCH ALLOWS HIM TO BE THE MAN
Let’s not get it twisted ladies it our God-given right for our man to pay some of our bills. Cut the 50/50 BS, yeah I call it BS because that’s what it is. I am not saying that it’s wrong to be independent – get your money, but if he wants you and your time then he has to pay for it. Men actually value what they pay for. Let him pick up the check especially when you two are out on a date; it is good for his ego.
A lady who does not allow her man to pay her bills comes across as proud and overly self-sufficient. Perhaps all that the lady is trying to do is be the ‘good girl’—reason most men don’t want her. I used to be the “good girl” until i realized that acting nice all the time does not always make people see you in the good light. Fact is, some people, especially men mistake the good girls for weak girls. Come to think of it, if acting nice all the time actually mean you are nice, then, there would be no such word as “pretender” in the dictionary, would there?
A BITCH IS A DIVA
A lot of career women think that the only time they need to look good is when they are at work. They put on those body fitted suits that accentuates their curves, the high heels that tighten their butts. But when they get home they tend to leave all that sexiness on the terrace. And when it’s bed time, they will walk into the room with that “I am tired, don’t touch me” look on their faces.
Queen bee, in one of her songs, defined a diva as a female version of a hustler and I couldn’t agree more.
A diva keeps it real both at work and in her home. She needs her pajama only when she is going for a late-night sushi with bae. But her sexy lingerie, her perfume and even her make-up are worn in the bedroom. Because to her, the bedroom business is just as important as the office business. Reason she is not sweating any hostile take-over by any other bitch out there. Yes, there is always another bitch just around the corner.
A BITCH GIVES HER MAN A GOOD HEAD.
Bitches are the naughtiest under sheets. A bitch doesn’t leave her man with his hard on. Instead, she leaves her man begging for more. She is that girl you don’t want to take home to mama but can’t leave without her either. The good girls have nothing on her because she is so good at being bad.
SNOOP ON HER MAN
Ok, first, a bitch will never snoop. Why? Because she knows her game is tight, Aint no other bitch out there ‘badder’ than her. But if she, for a minute, decide to switch roles with the clingy, snoops on her man and finds out her man is cheating on her, she don’t stay. No no-no, bitches don’t let a man disrespect them like that. That’s a major violation of the bitches’ code.
What is she gon’ do? She won’t leave quietly that is for sure and she don’t go pulling the hair of the other bitch, that’s tacky and low class—bitches don’t play that. What she gon’ do is, look her man in the face and tell him ‘bye Felicia’ and then she will make that regal exit.
You snoop on your man finds out he is cheating and you stay? What the hell does that mean? Not only will he have no more respect for you, he will also dump your ass so soon it will make your head spin. Because guess what? There is something very unsexy and unattractive about a weak ass. Believe that.
I will always say this: if you know that you are not strong enough to walk away when you snoop on your man and find out he is cheating, then save your sanity and respect and don’t snoop at all.
It’s crazy how some ladies say they want to know if there man is cheating on them but when they find out he is cheating: they cry during the day and then go to cuddle with him in the night.
A lot of ladies do this and I’m yet to figure out why.